With all the articles and opinion columens being written about the election results I have found myself thinking about what has happened in my lifetime. I was born the year after the Brown vs. the Board of Education ruling that overturned educational segregation. We lived in Wyoming, Montana and North Dakota until I was 5, then we moved to Morrilton Arkansas. Our school was segregated, something I was aware of but had no inkling what it meant. I can remember another child telling me that this school was new and the black children went to the old school. Time passed and my sister was born. She had severe birth defects and only came home for one weekend in her entire 6 months of life. We had moved to MacAlister Oklahoma that spring. When she died that summer. Our car was not deemed road worthy so we rode the Greyhound bus to Cheyenne. We stopped (to change buses probably) in a big city, probably Oklahoma City, and got off the bus to use the bathroom. I can remember standing in this huge room looking for the loo and seeing a "Women's Restroom" sign. We entered and after we were using the facilities, Mom said, "I think we 're in the wrong restroom." I didn't understand why she would say that but I was impressed with the cochroaches and the dirtiness. We were walking back to the bus when we saw a room labeled, "Ladies." We went in and compared to the "Women's" this was the Taj Mahal. Clean, a chaise lounge to lay back on, and very pretty. Mom explained to me why this one was so nice, "this one is for whites, the other is for negroes."
Fast forward to 1989 in New Orleans. I have driven over with A to attend an ALPA sponsored crab boil. Kent has reserved a room at the layover hotel for us. I am checking in when a very nicely dressed black couple enter the lobby and ask for a room. The manager says that he has none and that they will probably have to go as far as Baton Rouge to find one. The Jazz festival is going on and all the hotels are full. After they left he says to me, "I did have a room, but I wasn't going to rent it to them." I was so repulsed that I thought about not staying there. But in the days before cell phones you didn't you couldn't just change your plans as you had no way of communicating this to your other half.
Fast forward to the winter of 2007 and the 41st Super Bowl. History is being made as for the first time, not only is a team with a black coach competing but actually both coaches are black. It seems like such a footnote now.
Now we have a black President Elect. I would rather have had someone like Colin Powell or Condelisa Rice, but I do understand what all the fuss is about. I am glad that this has happened in my lifetime. And I hope that before I die that we elect our first female President.